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Zakhiwa kanjani izahlulelo?

Zakhiwa kanjani izahlulelo?

Izahlulelo zakhiwa ngokuhluka. Abantu bakhuliswa ngokuhlukile futhi babona impilo nge-lens ehlukile ngenxa yalokho abakujwayele. Babona izimo ngokwabo umbono futhi lokhu kungaletha ukwahlulelwa.

Isibonelo, u-Ella noMaria bahlala ndawonye ekolishi. Ngelinye ilanga, uMaria ucasukela u-Ella ngoba ecabanga ukuthi u-Ella unomsindo kakhulu. Khonamanjalo u-Ella uphatheke kabi ngoMaria ngoba ucabanga ukuthi uMaria uthule kakhulu futhi ulindele ukuthi wonke umuntu alondoloze umsindo ophansi. U-Ella wakhulela emndenini omkhulu owawunomsindo. Emndenini wakhe, u-Ella wayebhekwa njengothule. UMaria wayewukuphela kwengane futhi wakhulela emkhayeni omncane owawukhuluma kamnandi. Emndenini wakhe, ubebonakala njengonomsindo. Bobabili uMaria no-Ella babheka ukukhuliswa kwabo kuyinto ejwayelekile ngakho-ke bahlulela omunye ngokuthi uthule kakhulu noma ukhala kakhulu kunezinga labo.

Lapho lokhu kungaboni ngaso linye kwenzeka, abantu baqala ukuhlobana nesimo futhi imvamisa bacabanga ngokwabo okuthile okuhambisana nokuthi “Angisoze ngakwenza lokho…” noma “Angiqondi ukuthi umuntu angakwenza kanjani…”. Ngobunye obuphelele, kuyaziwa ukuthi kuhlale kunesizathu sokuthi kungani abantu benza abakwenzayo. Lapho othile engakwazi ukuqonda okwenziwa ngomunye, indawo yonke ibeka ngokuzenzakalela isimo esizayo lapho bezokwazi ukuqonda ngokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu. Kungenzeka ngqo kumuntu noma kumuntu abamthandayo ukuze afunde ukwamukelwa.

Isibonelo, uFatima uzwa ukuthi umngani wakhe uConstance uthandane nendoda eshadile. Lapho ezwa lokhu, uFatima ucasulwa uConstance bese ememeza, “Angisoze ngachitha umndeni onjengawe!” Eshayela ekhaya, uFatima ucabanga yedwa, "UConstance angahlala kanjani naye ngemuva kokwenza into embi kangaka?" Ubungani bukaFatima noConstance buyahlukana. Ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi, indodakazi kaFatima itshela umama wayo ukuthi umyeni wakhe wayesashadile ngonyaka wokuqala abathandana nawo. UFatima uzithola esesimweni lapho engeke avele axoshe indodakazi ayithandayo, kunalokho aphoqeleke ukuba afunde ukwamukelwa.

Lapho umuntu enza isinqumo, nabo baba necala. Imvamisa abakwazi lokhu kepha umphefumulo wabo nakanjani uyazi. Lokhu kuvame ukuholela kubantu abazama ukusebenzisa i-logic ukuphikisa lelo cala. Kwesinye isikhathi bakwenza lokhu ngokutotosa omunye umuntu ngenhloso yokuzithethelela ngecala labo lokwahlulela.

KULUNGILE ukuphila impilo yakho ngamanani owafundile kepha kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukuqonda ukuthi abekho abantu ababili abafanayo. Uma uthatha isikhathi ukuqonda kahle indaba ephelele yomuntu, uzothola ukuthi ngabe wenze okufanayo futhi wenza izinqumo ezifanayo ukube ubuphila impilo yabo. Wonke umuntu uhlala enza izinqumo ezinhle kakhulu akwazi ukuzenza ngaleso sikhathi.

Ukubona impilo yami
ngamehlo abolekisiwe,
kungaba yindaba

Kunzima ukuyichaza.

Indaba igcwele

ngezikhala eziningi,
akufanele ibekwe

iyahlaselwa.

Esikhundleni salokho zama

mane wamukele.
Bheka ngaphakathi

bese ukhombisa inhlonipho.

Impilo yakho ngeyakho

phila ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Gcwalisa ngenjabulo
njengoba ukwahlulela kulula.

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