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Ngiyibeka kanjani futhi ngiyigcine kanjani imingcele?

Ngiyibeka kanjani futhi ngiyigcine kanjani imingcele?

Isinyathelo sokuqala sokubeka imingcele ukunquma ukuthi ukhululekile kuphi ngoba nguwe kuphela ozokwazi ukuthi usethe miphi imingcele. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokuzibuza imibuzo embalwa, ephathelene nomuntu ofuna ukusetha imingcele naye, njengokulandelayo:

Ngifuna ukuba kude kangakanani nalo muntu?
Ngifuna ukunikela isikhathi esingakanani kulobu budlelwano?
Yiliphi izinga lobumfihlo engifuna ukulisungula?

Lapho usuyibekile imingcele engqondweni yakho, isinyathelo esilandelayo ukukudlulisa lokho kubo ngomlomo. Akukona ukudelela ukuveza okudingayo ukuze ubudlelwano (obubalulekile bokunye, umndeni, abangane, njll.) Buphumelele. Uma bengawuhloniphi umngcele wakho, kubalulekile ukuthi kube nomphumela.

Isibonelo, uWhitney usepaki ngelinye ilanga lapho ehlangana neMilan. Bobabili bayaxhuma futhi banqume ukuthi bazoba ngabangani. UWhitney utshela uMilan ukuthi ubheka ikhaya lakhe njengendawo yakhe engcwele futhi kubalulekile kuye ukuthi abantu bangaveli endlini yakhe bengamenyiwe noma ngaphezulu kwemizuzu eyi-10 ngaphambi kwesikhathi. UMilan uyavuma futhi bobabili bahlela ukuhlangana ukuze baphuze ikhofi kwaWhitney ngoLwesine ngo-1 emini. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, uWhitney uziphumulele egumbini lakhe lokulala ilanga lapho kukhala umnyango. Ukuma emnyango yiMilan kepha kusasele amahora ama-2. UWhitney uzizwa sengathi imingcele yakhe ayihlonishwanga. Utshela uMilan ngesizotha ukuthi ubesazomshayela ucingo ukuthi ahlehlise usuku lwabo lwekhofi kuze kube yisonto elizayo. Ngokwazi, uMilan wazi kahle ukuthi kwenzekani ngoba uyazi ukuthi uhlasela umngcele kaWhitney okuvunyelwene ngawo ngomlomo. UMilan ubemane efuna ukubona ukuthi uWhitney uzoba bhetyebhetye kangakanani kodwa uWhitney wagcina umngcele wakhe.

Lapho othile evumela ukuthi umngcele wabo uthathwe, bavame ukubonwa njengesiqubulo. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngoba bavumela othile ukuthi angene esikhaleni sabo. Lokhu kuvame ukuholela ekutheni abantu bahlole lowo mkhawulo kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi abantu bazi ukuthi bangaqina kanjani futhi babambe isikhala sabo.

Uma unomuntu empilweni yakho odinga ukwazi yonke imininingwane mayelana nokuthi wenzani ngosuku, yazi ukuthi udinga ukubeka imingcele. Akekho odinga ukwazi ukuthi wenzani njalo ngomzuzwana wosuku, uma kukwenza ungakhululeki.

Kubalulekile ukuthi ungasekeli imingcele yakho emingceleni yabanye abantu. Wonke umuntu wehlukile futhi okwenza umuntu anethezeke kungenza omunye angakhululeki. Abanye abantu abathandi ukuba nemingcele futhi kulungile futhi. Qiniseka ukuthi ungokoqobo kuwe kepha. Ngezinye izikhathi abantu bangakhononda ngokungena kwabanye endaweni yabo. Abantu abafanayo bangacasulwa uma abanye bebengaphoqi ngoba balangazelela ukunakwa. Setha umngcele onethezeke kuwo uqobo futhi uyihloniphe imingcele abanye abazibekela yona.

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