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Ngingalithola kanjani iwele lami?

Ngingalithola kanjani iwele lami?

Njengamanje sisesikhathini lapho abaningi amawele amabili bayahlangana. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abengekho amathuba amaningi noma ukuvumelanisa okuhambisanayo obekuzovumela lokhu esikhathini esedlule. I-aura yelangabi lakho lewele liseduze uze uhlangane futhi baphambi kwakho.

Ukuthola iwele lakho akuyona into "ongayibheka" ngempela, kufanele uvulekele kuyo, kepha qaphela ukuthi ungagxili kakhulu kuyo. Uma konke ongakwenza ukucabanga ngokuthola ilangabi lakho lamawele, kungenzeka-ke dudula kusuka kuwe uma ungakakulungeli okwamanje. Ungayibheka futhi uyibheke, kepha kufanele uvule wena ukuze uyamukele.

Umuntu angazivulela kanjani amandla amabili welangabi?

Okokuqala, zazi kangcono. Ngemuva kwalokho kufanele uthuthukise ukuxhumana ne Okwangempela. Kufanele uzazi wena, uma kungenjalo ungazilahlekisela kubo. Ukuba khona kwabo kuzoba ubukhona obukhulu kangaka empilweni yakho, ngoba yikho konke ongekho, ukuthi ungazilahlekisela kubo bese uqala ukufana nabo futhi ungafani nawe. Kufanele uzazi kahle kakhulu ukuze ukwazi ukuzibambela isikhala sakho.

Okulandelayo, kufanele uzithande futhi wamukele amaphutha akho ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Uma uhlangana newele, kunethuba elihle lokuthi uzobe usebenza ngokubambisana ukuze ulinganise. Le nqubo ukusiza omunye nomunye ukubhekana nezinkinga ezisebenza njengezithiyo ekukhuleni kwakho ngobunye ngokomoya. Ngokuzithanda nokuzamukela, ungavuma ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyishintsha futhi usuvele unokuthula ngezinto olungile ngazo.

Amalangabi amabili angadonsana noma ahlaselane. Kwesinye isikhathi, kunabantu ongeke ubabekezelele, ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo. Awazi ukuthi kungani bekha imizwa yakho kabi kangaka. Lokho kungaba yiwele lakho. Kungenzeka nibe sesikhathini lapho kufanele nidudulane khona, hhayi ukuhamba ndawonye. Abanye abantu bangathi, “lelo akulona iwele lami, angimthandi lowo muntu. Angifani nabo. ” Uma kunjalo, ungahle uthande ukubheka ngaphakathi bese uhlaziya ukuthi kungani ungabathandi ngaleyo ndlela. Amawele asebenzisana ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene ngakho iwele lakho kungenzeka lingabi intshisekelo yothando lwakho. Kwezinye izimpilo, kungadingeka badlale indima ehlukile. Akunandaba ngendima yabo, inhloso eyisisekelo isuka othandweni ngawe.

Ukuhlangenwe nakho ngakunye kwelangabi lewele kakhulu, kuhluke kakhulu ngoba kuyindaba ehlukile. Kukhona ukufana phakathi kobudlelwano bamawele kepha awukwazi ukuzwa ngobunye bese ucabanga ukuthi kuzoba okufanayo ngo-100% kuwe. Ungumuntu ohlukile okusho ukuthi ubona izinto futhi usabela ezintweni ngendlela ehlukile. Isikhathi esihle somunye umuntu singaba yisikhathi esibi somunye umuntu. Ungakuthola ukufana, kepha ngeke ulindele ukuthi kufane. Kufanele wakhe eyakho indaba.

Umama wakho ungenzele isipho
ubeka amafu nomndeni
lokho kushiye maduzane
ukukhanyisa inyanga
futhi uphile impilo ngaphandle kwamandla adonsela phansi.

Ngithatha isandla sakho esincanyana ngesami
“Akunankinga sithandwa sizobe silungile”
Ngizokufunza iqiniso
ukuhlinzeka ngobufakazi
futhi ngikunikeze konke okudingayo ukukuthola.

Impilo yami inganekwane yengane
i-gramp yenza amaphupho ami abe amaqiniso
ukukhipha ithemba
ngakho ngiyakwazi ukubhekana nakho
futhi undize uye emithaleni ehlukene.

Ngiyakubuka futhi ngiyaqonda
umphefumulo wethu munye, umucu owodwa
Sthandwa sami ikhambi lakho
ukukugcina umsulwa
futhi senze umhlaba wethu ube yisimanga.

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