Iyiphi indima edlalwa ngu-Ego no-True Self ekuphazamiseni?

Ukuze ngikufundise izifundo, ukuzazisa kusebenzisa iziphazamiso njengendlela yokulingwa.

I-Ego iyakuphazamisa ngokunikezela ngokuqhubekayo kokuthuthuka ngokomzimba kanye nokufunayo. Ithula amathuba angagcina unamathele ekujaheni njalo ukuthuthuka okulandelayo.

Isibonelo, uMike noDiane bahlela ukuthatha umhlalaphansi baphishekele uthando lwabo lokuhamba uma sebesindise ama- $ 500,000. Njengoba befika eminyakeni yobudala yokuthatha umhlalaphansi, bayabona ukuthi izindleko zabo zokuphila zikhuphukile. Ukuthengwa kwabo kwezimoto ezintsha kube yizindleko ezinkulu. Izintengo zikagesi zikhuphukile. Omakhalekhukhwini babo manje badinga uhlelo lwedatha olubiza kakhulu futhi izingcingo ngokwazo zidinga izinkokhelo zenyanga ukuthenga. Amasayithi aku-inthanethi nezinhlelo zokusebenza esezijwayele ukuza nezindleko eziphindaphindeka zenyanga. Ezinye izindawo zokudlela ezintsha zivulwe eduze kwabo futhi ziphaka ukudla okumangalisayo ngentengo. Zonke lezi zinto nokunye okuningi kwenza uMike noDiane bazizwe sengathi badinga imali ethe xaxa ukuze balondoloze indlela yokuphila abayithandayo. Bakhetha ukuhlehlisa ukuthatha kwabo umhlalaphansi.

Abantu abaningi bawela kulokhu kuphazamiseka okususelwa ku-Ego. Ngesikhathi bethatha umhlalaphansi, iminyaka yabo ingabavimba ekujabuleleni ngempela izinkanuko zabo. Kulabo ababona izilingo futhi bagxile enjabulweni yabo yangempela, u-Ego angakhetha ukubaklomelisa ngokunqoba lesi sifundo.

Okwangempela kusebenzisa izimpawu njengeziphazamiso ukuze sixhumane futhi sixhumane nawe. Lezi zimpawu zibekwe empilweni yakho ukuze zivuse i-subconscious imizwa lapho ubadinga.

Isibonelo, uMaëlle uthola umsebenzi wokusebenza esikebheni sokuvakasha. Uthando lwakhe lukhuluma ngempilo yasolwandle ngakho-ke ngisho nomcabango walo msebenzi kumnika umuzwa ojabulisayo. Inkinga nje ukuthi ukushintshela kulo msebenzi kuzoletha ukuncishiselwa umholo. Ngenkathi ushayela ulwandle eyohlangana nokaputeni, uMaëlle namanje akazi ukuthi uzowamukela yini lo msebenzi noma cha. Ubona umuntu ehamba eceleni komgwaqo efake amahedfoni. Ngemuva kwemizuzu embalwa, ngaphandle kokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka uzizwa ephoqelekile ukuthi avule umsakazo. Ingoma edlalayo imayelana nokubaluleka kokukhetha injabulo ngaphezu kwesibopho. UMaëlle ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kusebenza kanjani esinqumweni sakhe. Ingqondo yakhe idlulela ezingxoxweni noyise ngokuzisola kwakhe ngokungabi umlimi. Ngaleso sikhathi, unquma ukwamukela lo msebenzi lapho ukaputeni ewunikeza.

Imizwa ebangelwa yile ngoma isebenza njengophawu oluvela ku-True Self njengendlela yokuqondisa uMaëlle maqondana nesinqumo esizomlethela injabulo.