Luyini uthando?

Uthando uthingo lwemibala nemizwa.

Uthando luyinhlanganisela yakho konke okungazwakala ngokomzwelo. Kuyathandeka, akuqiniseki, kuyashukumisa, kudlidlizela, kuyazimisela, kuyazi, futhi kugcwele ukukhanya.

Yize abaningi besaba uthando, basalufuna. Bazama ukuthola uthando olubuyisela uthando abalunikayo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi uthando lungavezwa ngezindlela ezahlukene.

Isibonelo, u-Alejandro uhlanza indlu yakhe bese elanda umkakhe uPaloma. Ngenkathi evutha, uvame ukuhlushwa yimicabango yokuthi angathanda kanjani ukuzijabulisa kepha kufanele akwenze lokhu ngoba uyisiphithiphithi. Kwesinye isikhathi, aze athukuthele ecabanga ukuthi angamcabangela kanjani. Khonamanjalo, uPaloma usekhishini upheka isidlo sabo sakusihlwa. Ebuka u-Alejandro ehlanzekile, ucabanga yena ukuthi ukujabulela kanjani ukupheka ukudala ukudla okumnandi kakhulu abazokujabulela. Akakuthandi lokho esikhundleni sokugcina inkampani yakhe, u-Alejandro uphoqelela kakhulu ukuhlanza.

Kulesi sibonelo, u-Alejandro ukuzonda ukuhlanza futhi ukusisebenzisa njengomhlatshelo ukukhombisa uthando. Wazi ngokuzidela okwenziwayo, uPaloma uyakujabulela ukupheka futhi akusebenzisele ukukhombisa uthando ngendlela engazideli. Yize bobabili bethandana kakhulu, futhi bengazi ukuthi omunye uzwakalisa kanjani.