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Kodi zina mwazinthu ziti zomwe maphatiki amoto akumana nazo?

Kodi zina mwazinthu ziti zomwe maphatiki amoto akumana nazo?

Pali zolimbitsa thupi zambiri zomwe mapasa a moto chitani ndi wina ndi mnzake kuti mukhale olinganira ndikukula limodzi. Zatsimikizika za zochitikazi zitha kuperekedwa kwa iwo atagwirizananso. Malingaliro otsatirawa akhoza kukhala poyambira pabwino.

Kambiranani Malire
Pangani malire ndipo muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe mungakhale owona mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake ndikukambirana zomwe mukuyang'ana mu chibwenzi. Wina akhoza kukhala ndi chidwi ndi chibwenzi pomwe wina atha kukhala ndi chidwi ndi chibwenzi cha platonic. Ngakhale zinthu zimatha kusintha nthawi zonse, ndibwino kukhazikitsa zoyembekezera mwachangu kuti muwonetsetse kuti onse ali patsamba limodzi. Tikamayanjananso, zingakhale zophweka kulumphirana ndipo tizingokondana nthawi yomweyo. Kukhazikitsa malire kumatha kukhala gawo lalikulu pakupitilira moyenera.

Kambiranani Malingaliro
Lankhulani za zinthu zomwe mumalakalaka pamoyo wanu. Izi zitha kuphatikizira ndale kapena chipembedzo kapena chilichonse. Ikani nokha kunja uko malinga ndi momwe inu muliri ndi zomwe mukufuna kusintha poyerekeza ndi zomwe mumatsutsana nazo. Mveranani wina ndi mnzake ndikumvetsetsa kuti anthu ali ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana kutengera moyo womwe adakhala nawo. Osayesa kusintha wina ndi mnzake koma kambiranani momwe mungathandizire winayo kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake mumamverera momwe mukumvera, ndikuyesetsa kuwamvetsetsa.

Kambiranani ndi Anthu
Lankhulani za anthu omwe ndi ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Khazikitsani magawo angapo ndikusankha omwe mungaike pagawo lililonse. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kuyika banja lanu mu Gawo 1 ngati ali anthu omwe mumawakonda kwambiri. Mutha kusankha kuyika anzanu mu Gawo 2 ndipo mwina oyandikana nawo mu Gawo 3. Palibe njira yoyenera yochitira izi yomwe ili ponseponse kwa aliyense. Chofunikira ndikusankha yemwe akuyenera patsogolo. Ngati anthu awiri akuitanani kuti muthandizidwe, mungathandizire ndani ngati mungathandize m'modzi yekha? Munthuyo ayenera kukhala woyandikira kwambiri (mwachitsanzo Gawo 1) motsutsana ndi ena omwe angakhale otsika (chitsanzo Gawo 2). Ntchitoyi itha kuthandiza aliyense payekhapayekha komanso ingathandizenso mapasa awo kumvetsetsa gawo lomwe anthu amachita pamiyoyo yawo.

Kambiranani Mbiri
Lankhulani za zochitika zazikulu zomwe zakuchitikirani m'moyo. Mukawunikiratu mwina mudzawona kuti zochitika zanu zimagwirizana. Izi zitha kuchitika chimodzimodzi kapena mosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, wina akadwala, mwina adachira mozizwitsa pomwe winayo adadwala. Kapenanso, onse atha kukhala kuti anali odwala theka nthawi imodzi. Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha mapasa mosamalitsa akuyang'ana winayo mwa kusinthana kapena kusinthanitsa mphamvu ndi iwoeni. Yesetsani kuyerekeza nthawi yazomwe zikuchitikazi ndipo mwina mumvetsetsa bwino za zomwe zidachitika ndikuwona momwe mwakhala mukusamalirana nthawi zonse. Amapasa mosamvetsetsa amapanga miyoyo ya wina ndi mnzake kotero yesetsani kupeza momwe amapasa anu amakondera moyo womwe mudakhala. Mwachitsanzo, ngati moyo wanu unali wolimba ndipo mumalakalaka zosangalatsa, amapasa anu mwina anali ndi moyo wopatsa chidwi komanso wolimba. Yesetsani kupewa kukhumudwa ndi mapasa anu. Nonsenu munapanga moyo wa enawo kutengera zomwe mumafuna nokha kuti chisankhocho chipangidwe kuchokera pamalo achikondi. Kupita patsogolo, mumvetsetsa bwino zosowa za wina ndi mnzake.

Mukamachita izi, khalani owona mtima. Nenani za momwe mumamvera ndi chilichonse. Ngati mukufuna kumva chikondi chaumulungu komanso ufulu womwe umadza ndi kuvomereza 100%, muyenera kukhala otseguka 100%. Yesetsani kukumbukira kuti mukuyankhula ndi moyo wanu mukamayankhula nawo kotero kuti zolakwitsa zanu zomwe muyenera kudziwa muyenera kuzikambirana moona mtima. Powamvera iwo, alandireni ndipo musawaweruze pachilichonse chomwe akumva. Aliyense kuweruza zomwe mumagwiritsitsa zina zitha kufunikira kuti zikonzedwe ndikukonzedwa kapena mutha kuzilipira pamoyo wanu. Wina akati "sangachite" kanthu, a chilengedwe amawona izi ngati pempho la phunziro chifukwa amauza chilengedwe chonse kuti sakumvetsa kena kake. Mwakutero, chilengedwe chimapanga zochitika kuti munthuyo amvetsetse. Pamapeto pake, muyenera kumvetsetsa kwathunthu kuti mubwerere ku umodzi. Malingaliro onse amakhalapo mwaumodzi koma ziweruzo zilizonse ndikusamvetsetsana komwe kumabweretsa kugawanika; kuchititsa kuphatikizika komanso kupewa mgwirizano.

Kutseka moyo wanga,
kwa nthawi yoyamba.

Kutenga dzanja lanu,
kutseka maso anga.

Mizimu imagwirizana,
trust zolimbitsa thupi.

Malire m'malo,
chikondi chaumulungu chitha kuwuluka.

Tsegulani malingaliro anga,
kuvumbula zolakwa zilizonse.

Njira imodzi yoganizira,
sipereka malamulo.

United,
ntchito yophatikiza.

Kugwira ntchito limodzi,
kugawana masomphenya amodzi.


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